L.O.V.E a complicated four letter word :o

Stop trying to just be in a relationship and try to let LOVE happen naturally. Often times I feel there is a sense of desperation that you get with the first person that comes your way, and right away you want it to forcefully blossom into a relationship when deep down you know its not going to work.The secret to landing a good man is to stop focusing on the hunt and just be selfish and take good care of yourself. That's right I said it be selfish . For those of you who follow my blog I've talked about setting intentions. By setting intentions you are letting the universe know what you want. What women need is to first learn to love themselves none of this "I'm fat, ugly no man will ever fall in love with my fat ass type of attitude". By having that attitude you make yourself feel like you wont attract the right type of man and you attract all the Joe-Schmo's. That energy shows a lower self-esteem that when anyone shows any interest you jump into the relationship because your afraid no one else will be drawn to you. A good tip to try is affirmations say three things that you love about yourself in front of the mirror everyday you will notice how fast your self esteem improves. Secondly getting out of your comfort zone do something to better yourself whether it be eat more healthy, go to a yoga class to find internal peace, or maybe try a new hairstyles that you always liked but were afraid to try it.Sometimes we can be so dead set in our ways that we meet people in all the wrong places. Don't be the type of gal that meets men at the corner bar that is full of deadbeats. Go to social gatherings from meeting men at a class you took, to meeting them at the art festival in your town, be social and you will realize men do exist at different places besides the bar. By following these tips you will know how you can still have a amazing relationship with a man but you can also have a relationship with yourself. So ladies go out there live your lives and be selfish!!

Turning to a Psychic when it comes to Mr. Right

This message goes out to all the single women who constantly turn to psychics for advice on Mr. Right. I got two words for you STOP IT! Let me tell you this if you are the type of women who calls their psychic every week for help cut it out! Psychics are good for guiding you on the right path for example if we tell you stay away from men with drug problems use that to guide you to someone more stable. Do not turn to a psychic every other day for advice on your next move. Here's a little secret for those who are not to familiar with how psychic visions v.s. the future work just know your future is not set in stone. What we see can change depending on where you are at in a present moment. Lets say you and your boyfriend are constantly fighting the psychic may say you don't love em leave him. Maybe at that moment those were your thoughts about the situation. But then you two reignited your romance and a new path was formed leading to a wedding. That's the future being changed. Or how about they say you will go on a trip to New York and fall in love. Then all of a sudden you decide to go to Mexico instead and you have a fling with a sexy Latin lover(while you were drunk). That's you changing the outcome again.The point I'm trying to make here is don't rely solely on a psychics advise. Use a combination of your own intuition along with advise from others. Don't become one of those people who have their lives dictated by what a psychic says.Learn to trust in yourself and hear your guides voice when it comes on what to do. Never give someone else control, empower yourself to make your own choices.

With Love and Devotion

David

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